Ana Canosa: She didn't realize he was cumming so quickly until they both sat on a couch

In terms of relationships, his life is peaceful. He is in a stable relationship with an active woman who also loves to work and shares similar values ​​and routines to his. But, as we all know, life is never a bed of roses all the time. There is always a stumbling block in the road reminding us that we are, indeed, human — and imperfect.

Perhaps this moment of greater stability gave him the courage to look at an issue he had always avoided: his sexual performance. Or, perhaps, feeling stronger, he was finally able to share this with someone. The fact is that, somewhat awkwardly, he came to me. Renato reported that he came too quickly.

But, after all… fast for whom? This is also a subjective perception. There is, of course, a technical criterion that appears in diagnostic manuals: ejaculation in less than one minute after the beginning of penetration. There was a time when it was even measured by the number of movements — ten, at most.

But let's face it, that was never the most relevant thing. What really matters is how much this issue causes physical or emotional suffering, both for the person living with the person and for the person in a relationship with the person. And Renato was clear that this affected him deeply. As for his wife... well, he wasn't so sure.

From the very first meeting, we talked about the importance of bringing her into the process. And he? He promptly refused. After all, after more than seven years of marriage, he had NEVER brought up this subject with her. So we started working on strengthening her self-esteem in the sexual field.

He learned techniques to reduce anxiety and also masturbatory practices to train ejaculatory control. We expanded the conversation to other aspects of his life: work, family (where he also carried the burden of being responsible for everything), among others. Little by little, he improved a lot in individual training, but he still entered sexual relations with that paralyzing fear of hearing, one day: "Huh... already?"